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How Pushing Too Hard Can Affect Your Health

Ever feel like you need to get everything exactly right?

Maybe you check your work several times, worry about slipping up, or push yourself harder than anyone else ever would. It might seem like this is just how you’re wired, but have you considered that this drive for perfection could actually be impacting your health?

Many people living with autoimmune conditions share a surprising common trait: they put intense pressure on themselves to be perfect. They keep going when they’re exhausted, dismiss their own needs, and set standards no one could realistically meet. Over time, this self-imposed pressure can lead to chronic stress, which may fuel inflammation and immune system imbalances.

Let’s explore this lesser-known link and why understanding it can be a powerful step toward healing.

What Is Perfectionism?

Perfectionism means setting impossibly high expectations for yourself and feeling like anything less than flawless isn’t enough. It often comes with harsh self-talk, a fear of mistakes, and ongoing stress, because perfection isn’t attainable, no matter how hard we try.

A Quick Look at Autoimmune Disorders

The immune system is built to protect us from harmful intruders like viruses and bacteria. But in autoimmune disorders, the system misfires, attacking healthy tissue by mistake. This can cause a wide range of symptoms depending on which part of the body is targeted.

How It’s All Connected

Emerging research shows a potential link between perfectionism and autoimmune issues. Here’s what might be happening:

  • Ongoing Stress: The stress of chasing perfection every day can strain the body. Long-term stress can interfere with immune function, increasing the risk of misfires.
  • Mind-Body Impact: Perfectionism is tied to anxiety and depression, which are known to affect overall physical health, including how the immune system behaves.

What You Can Do

Becoming aware of this link is empowering. It means you have a chance to make changes that support both your mental and physical health. Here are a few ways to start:

  • Set goals that are challenging but achievable
  • Give yourself permission to be human (mistakes and all)
  • Make time for rest, fun, and emotional recovery
  • Lean on supportive friends, family, or a therapist when needed

You don’t need to be perfect to be healthy, happy, or loved. In fact, letting go of the pressure to be perfect might be one of the healthiest choices you can make.

Louise
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